PACIFY
Stop finding ways to change the topic.
Avoiding it just makes it harder for the person to live with it.
Address the problem and then it is resolved.
To bribe, deflect or avoid the sensitive topic only makes it store in the body to ferment until it finally explodes into an argument causing stress to other parties as well as the individual.
When people have a problem, it does not go away and get forgotten.
It hides and collects more of the similar feelings until there is no more room in the body.
The only resort to let off some of the build up is to explode like a volcano and let the rest simmer for another time to explode if not resolved.
People need to understand that healing on all levels is required, emotions and feelings included.
Please do not hide your true feelings, honor them by expressing them in a clear manner so that others truly understand your problem and how to resolve it.
